Memorial Day, as it often does, has had me thinking.
Although Jeff and I live out West now, we were both raised, educated, and lived nearly all our lives in the Midwest. That makes us Northerners. (Yankees, some might say.) And our understanding of American life, history, and culture is framed by that fact. It also means that, yes, we have eaten canned fruit suspended in Jello and called it salad. I know. I know. Culture is sometimes best written in italics.
Obviously, I’ve always known we were Northerners, but that fact has become quite glaring the last half year. In the South, our accent, the rhythm of our sentences, and our habits were different in small but noticeable ways, with each difference stacking up like plastic Lego bricks as time went on. Luckily it seemed to amuse people in the small towns that don’t get a ton of tourism. Five weeks in Hartwell, Georgia, for example, meant a lot of “Where y’all from?”

Yes, we’re going to talk about that most Southern of elephants in the room. No, I don’t really want to, but it feels deceitful to ignore it.
Being from the North, we also appear to think differently about one of the most pivotal events in United States history, the Civil War (1861-1865). Obviously, Jeff and I expected to come at this piece of history from a Northern perspective, but I don’t think either of us were prepared for the deep veneration of the Confederacy that we saw the last couple of months. Perhaps veneration isn’t the best word for it, but it’s the closest I can find at the moment. (Then again, considering how many things we’ve seen that flag or the word Rebel on, perhaps it is correct.)

Even the terminology used down there varies, and as we know, the words we use scaffold our thoughts. While I never heard it called anything but ‘The Civil War’ growing up, in Tennessee, Georgia, Florida, and the Carolinas, it was usually called ‘The War Between the States,’ ‘The War for States Rights,’ and ‘The War for Southern Independence’—even on recently made plaques. A few times I even saw ‘The War of Northern Aggression,’ and Ho Boy, that really made my eye twitch.

Now these differences aren’t be too surprising, even for a couple of Northerners. South Carolina is known as the Birthplace of Secession after all. (I read a very good book about that, by the way, if you’re interested in the topic. See my reading list page for the title. December-ish?) Georgia pushed for the idea almost as hard and was home to many key players in the Confederacy.


The early 1900s and, interestingly, the mid-1950’s seem to have been when the bulk of Confederate statues, obelisks, and columns went up. They memorialize the town’s patriotic soldiers, its glorious dead, and its honorable role in the war effort. Every small town of any size has a monument in the middle of town. (On a snarky note, it’s amazing how many towns lay claim to helping President Jefferson Davis flee after the fall of Richmond, in order to fight another day. Like seriously, they couldn’t have all hidden him and given him a fresh horse, could they?)

I understood the timing for the turn of the century. A few decades had passed. Emotional scabs had faded into scars. Soldiers, politicians, and traumatized everyday citizens from that period had grown older and were starting to die of natural causes. And as the economy of the South recovered and reinvented itself, the pain, destruction, and deprivations the war brought were probably beginning to soften in people’s memories. Nostalgia is a powerful anesthetic. Ask a mother about the pain of childbirth or a marathoner about the misery of mile 22. You’ll get vastly different answers, depending on if you ask them immediately following the event or decades later.
But what, we asked ourselves, was going on during the mid-1950’s that might have led to a re-glorification of the Southern Confederacy on such a massive scale? Well, there was school desegregation legislation (1954), Rosa Parks got arrested and bus boycotts in full force (1955), the entire nation was visually confronted by the violent racism endemic throughout the Deep South (Emmett Till 1955), as well as a growing demand for basic civil rights nationwide. Maybe I’m jaded, but I’d say there just might be a link.

The monument above (early 1900s) includes this passage on one side:
“The world shall yet decide,
in truth’s clear, far-off light,
that the soldiers who wore the
gray, and died
with Lee, were in the right.”
Yeah, no.

While roaming around the site above, a volunteer came by to describe the battle and tell us about their annual re-enactment events. His language was full of the, by then familiar, Lost Cause tropes, States Rights (vs slavery) justification, and the superiority of its local Military Cadets against seasoned (and exhausted) troops. He was a gregarious man, kind and welcoming, but a bit too full of the Stars and Bars veneration for my taste.

In case you’re thinking that progress always moves in a straight line, let’s look an example of the longevity of Confederate-style racism from, of all things, the 1997 film adaptation of Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Excellent book; decent film. Some soon to be big names in it. In the film’s courtroom scenes, you see a flag next to the judge with the Confederate Battle Flag on it. Hello, what?! That sent me down a rather ugly Wikipedia rabbit hole.




In the mid-1950s, Georgia’s lawmakers were “entirely devoted to passing legislation that would preserve segregation and white supremacy,” reads a Georgia Senate report from 2000. Indeed, John Sammons Bell said he designed the 1956 flag to honor the Confederacy and supported its adoption in defense of Georgia’s many institutions. You know, things like Jim Crow laws and racial segregation. Classy. He later went on to become a judge on Georgia’s Board of Appeals, because why wouldn’t you want such a fair and impartial guy deciding people’s fates?

We have a long way to go as a nation and, in my opinion, we’re decidedly going in the wrong direction at present. I have to wonder, at what point do we stretch the ties that bind us so far that we go beyond their ability to rebound. We may soon find out.

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Thanks for making it this far. I promise the next post will be much more upbeat.















































































































































































































